Daw greetings if you look at my post this morning on the main room forum which you just posted on, there is 3000 pdf in 2 links. enjoy the expansion ;0) :

Hello, i read what u were posting in the chat box and although i haven't experienced what you are going through to the extent that you are experiencing it, i figured i should offer what I've learned in the scales that I've learned it.
Let me start by saying this is a very strange predicament, a lot of the time our egos can label something thats not there, or if it is there, get so caught up in our own opinion (although it may be correct) that we cannot find a solution. So i don't know the details of what your going through but i figure some general advice MAY be applicable.
Use your own will to do whats best for you primarily in this situation, i have learn that how you react is how your environment reacts, so if you are experiencing any ego issue, deal with yourself first. When it comes to encounter dark energies, you have to use your own discernment quite a bit. I for instance notice my family members were occasionally hosting dark energies/spirits and they were sometimes successful at entering me, i resented my family for a bit but once i noticed what was going on, I learned that these energies get attached through fear essentially, and are use as "patches or bandages" so its quite a tender issue, i expressed the love i had for my family, indirectly on a physical level through encouraging more positive actions/behaviour and conversation and also on an energetic level by essentially letting the entity that was possessing/influencing my family know that it was lost and scared, and that if he opened up (in whatever ways applicable in the situation) that it too could find peace, once you accept this entity as a lost part of yourself, thats what it becomes, a small piece of yourself, so needless to say, you are MUCH more powerful! 
thats just one side of the coin, the other is something i don't experience often and thats when somebody is completely consumed and unrelenting in there possession. This is where your discernment comes in, be centred in LOVE, for others and for yourself, you can't let them taint you and if this means separating yourself from the situation, do what need be done. Realize everyone is on there own path and you can't really change them, i see this with my mother who is loosing her sister to ALS, it is the affect ones responsibility to cure themselves, all we can do is encourage positive behaviour and offer support, when offering support and encouragement becomes a burden to the point of a type of vampirism in which your being drained and brought down, use your best judgement, its called tough love 
I hope this helped on some level and i do sincerely wish you the best. ALL IS SELF
wholeness

Wholeness! Welcome to the family.  When I first came to this site, I found the most helpful place to begin was on the Home Page, START HERE, on the top left side.  Sevan guides through the site and is very expansive in what he shares. Janet