I am finding this easy and comfortable when I am participating in the day to day routine but I am losing during sleep/dreams.  I may last up to a month but lose control round about that mark.  I have always been a struggling dreamer but I am slowly getting progressing through the stages.

I'm a young Male, early thirties, I don't play casual sex and I don't play self sex.  Yes it is hard but something I am prepared to do. 

Anyone else relate to this? Have any tips?  I know it's personal but you do get over it.

 

Cheers in advance for all comments.

 

Wet Dreamer

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I can relate, with all I've been learning these past few years, about the work that, I have to put in to reach the level of ascending zion , I'm finding abstinence to be one of these easiest trials,

I just think about the mental and physical work that goes into having sex that i could be using that valuable energy, to knowledge, i just chop it up to be 1 less thing i have to worry about on my journey to my goal, also reserving valuable energy,

  • 1 tip is to read the book on sex for men thats here at the resistance,
  • another tip is to not place so much thought around or about it, i can also say that even if it's an every month hurdle for you, that the less you have it , one day you just stop have it until you actually want to,
  • and another thing, don't place so much importance on it, it's not real it's a form of control "the sex thing" it's you but your not controlling it, so i'd say to you control this aspect of yourself, sex is not that important as of now. With my experience, the more I heard and learned about "in the know sex" the easier it becomes for me to be abstinent, learning "in the know sex" is real turn off for regular sex.

there is deeper esoteric knowledge and ways of staying and being abstinent, but I'm not at the point in my life where i can safely speak on it, i just read today , that if you develop an attachment to physical things in the matrix, "whats more physical then sex mind you?", it develops and becomes apart of you, and when something becomes apart of you it develops a cycle ,one of yours is a monthly sexual cycle. "make it let go of you" or I could say "you let go of it".

here are some more stuff on the site, http://www.resistance2010.com/forum/topics/the-inner-alchemy-sexual...

http://www.resistance2010.com/forum/topics/our-complex-catch-22-and...

Check out the Inner Alchemy sexual energy discussion. I posted same info with german translation added Healing Love FREE Course, Grand Master Mantak Chia in Germany

You need to stay powered up and there are proper ways to do it.

WBV Sylvia

Bit late here, but as I said in group chat, I am in my thirties too and have maca etc, a healthy diet so, I am as pumped as anyone would be. Eventually you become ultra sensitive, the reason for this is because you have a lot of power inside of you, its explosive quite literally, to be put to task or used to attract what you want, when you want it (for others or you). For me it was three months but its the same thing. I wasn't cycling my sexual energy as efficiently as I could have been, (so it could be used, and so bottlenecking it) so I will be trying that this time around. Once every three days or so I am running the on inner sexual alchemy that Carolyn linked, in with the yoga and running.

I'll be sure to stop by and list my results with it, if I forget feel free to give me a nudge, or if you find any secrets out let me know. If we don't talk about the subject nobody learns anything. Whole had some good pointers though so maybe send a message to him if you get chance - WBV

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