I was with my partner for appx 7 years.  At the beginning of last year he began acting different in many ways.  I left the relationship keeping minimal contact by email and phone.  December 2010 I recieve word that he died.  I waited for a month before telling the kids (who were almost 3 and 5.)  

Now fast forward to the past couple months.  I meet an asian man in the park.  He takes an interest in my kids and then me.  I am in no way attracted to this person, but am nice to him, talking, helping him with english etc.  Suddenly, I find him wanting to call, contact on fb, come over to our place.  He has never made any type of suggestive move towards me whatsoever.  Always wants to bring the kids things (that they can not have) like sugar foods, ice cream, etc.

Well, this week he went to the store and came back with this thing that my partner used to buy for my son (which would always become an argument.)  It is filled with artifical food dyes and sugar.  My mouth dropped as I saw him come to my son with this thing.  Then the man 10 min. later is sharing how he has had a dream the night before (for the second time) that he is being 'held down.'  He had a terrified look in his eyes sharing this dream in his broken english.  He had to get up out of bed the whole night with all lights on in the house.

After he left our home I felt like something was strange.  Then had a thought of...did my dead partner take over his body!?  Because he is saying and doing things that are similar to the kids father, my partner. THAT night I had a dream,a Peruvian shaman was visiting me in the dreamtime.  He transformed into the Asian man.  He wore a papaya coloured cloak and had musical instruments...anyway. My perspective on what occurs after death has changed over the years.  At this point I am not sure what the feeling is.  I want to share this to ask others feelings/perspective...because something is feeling strange about this whole situation.

Today the man says to me why do I take the kids to a nanny one day per week instead let him watch them when he gets out of school....to save me money.  Now these 'could' be simply 'nice' gestures, but I have a gut feeling which tend to listen to...something??